I have relatives whose only contact for decades has been asking if I forgive them yet every few years.
In all that time it has never occurred to them to even fake an apology.
I think I've said I'm sorry to my kids more times this week than I heard from parents and grandparents combined in my life.
As for me, I understand that society was not equipped to deal with children like me back then. I'm still not going to just let people who still treat me like they did back then back into my life today.
You can make space for me to be me or I can by excluding you from my life.
GFCI have a "hot white" aka hot neutral because you can connect extra outlets downstream of them on the "cold" side and they will be protected by the GFCI. The hot refers to it facing the breaker panel still being connected and capable of zapping you when the GFCI is tripped. Only the breaker in the panel protects them.
So the hot side is the wires that face the breaker panel. The other set of screws is for connecting another outlet to that GFCI. If done correctly that single GFCI will protect those downstream outlets too.
Also, haha hot load.
My wife is my best friend.
We talk mad funny shit to each other, as best friends do.
I would never, however bad mouth my wife, who is the mother of my children, to other people, let alone the internet. Some of y'all are fucked.